Why do you Love this person? « Thread Started on Jun 13, 2006, 10:44pm »
Ive wanted to start a thread for those people who love someone very deeply and the reasons why. Also this may be a threat where people can help others...
This is my entry to the subject: I instantly fall in love with mystery. So I have fallen for this sweet fraulain. Ive been friends with her for 2 years and have always cracked a laugh here and there but never got to connect so deeply where I could be trusted with secrets. Recently, Ive become deeply involved with her. It happened 2 months ago. I was trying to go to sleep at 2am but I couldnt. These thoughts were rushing in my mind about her and the last thought which caused me to change was her just walking slowly away and leaving me forever. I sat up in a sweat even though it was cold. That point I just realized how the girl I could love was right beneath my very nose always concealed from the "friendship" we have. Ive been with 3 girls in my 16 years of life but never, have I been so clueless. I am totally lost in what I should do. This is no normal situation; I have never cried or avoided a girl all my life that I liked but this sweet Anessa, I cannot stop loving. One time I was at church and was singing a hymn when her face just popped up in my mind. I just crashed into depression. The thought of her, enwraps me in thought for literally hours. Why did I crash to depression? because I can never have her. She has gaven up on love she says, a former someone had a mutal liking agreement with her but betrayed her to only go out with one of her friends! O tragedy, it affects me too for now chances are slim for anything to happen. Im not predicting or hoping for a relationship because shes not that type of girl. A deeper love, a deeper bond I seek from her but sadly I am not good enough her friends say. Everyone says I should give out and 3 weeks in I said I was, but why after 2 months is my love stronger than ever? - I will not stop loving her, because hope wont let me.
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Re: Why do you Love this person? « Reply #1 on Jun 29, 2006, 7:58pm »
well i love my boyfriend michael because he is perfect for me.he knows when to say the right things and when to be silent and just listen to me. he comes to my work and brings me flowers because he was thinking of me. he has a heart that is golden and a sense of humor that i love.i alwasy have a good time with him.. even if we arer only laying down together. i also love him because i can tell him anything and he won't judge me.he's had my heart. i love that i don't have to do anything special, like get dresses up or put make up on or anything for him to tell me that i'm beautiful. i could show up in sweatpants, looking like a wreck and he just looks at me with his gorgeous blue eyes and says "sweetie you look gorgeous"even when he makes a mistake.. his patience and understand just makes him more perfect. i love everything about him .. if i could change anythign about him .. i wouldn't, not one solitary thing<3 i know that i love him
Tears of blood eyes of blue little girl what became of you?
Joined: Jun 2006 Gender: Female Posts: 49 Location: In a deep dark place
Re: Why do you Love this person? « Reply #2 on Jul 2, 2006, 5:27pm »
I love my boyfriend because he's so sweet, he can get on my nerves, but we've been together for awhile so that's normal. He makes me smile even when I'm pissed at him and he makes me laugh when I want to cry...he's my best friend...he tells me that he doesn't really understand why I do some of the things I do to myself. But, if it gets to a point where he thinks I need help bad he'll not stop to ask me what I want he'll take me and get me help before I can protest...he tells me I'm beautiful and he loves me...he's perfect for me. We've both been through and lost so much, he understands me the way most guys don't...he doesn't look at me like a sex object (Tho that part of our life is VERY good) if he's in the mood and i'm not he'll just kiss me softly and hold me and if I'm in the mood...he's always up for anything I want...sometimes when he comes in from work he wakes me up and it's so sweet...well laterzz *Shadow*
ps. yes...I know my bf shouldn't show up at my house at 3 in the morning...but he does and my family likes him so it's ok. lol.
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Re: Why do you Love this person? « Reply #3 on Jul 2, 2006, 5:49pm »
I love my boyfriend Shannon with probably everything I have. When we first started talking we clicked like it was meant to be. I have never had a guy like him in my life to appreciate me and treat me like a princess like the way he does. Sometimes I feel regretful for having him because he is such a good person he deserves the world. Sometimes I feel like I cant give that to him. My past relationship with a girl named Katie, really took a tole on me and I guess I have first love syndrome and she makes it as if whoever i'm with in my life they will never meet up to Katie, and I wish this 'spell' didnt exsist in my miond because Shannon has so much more to offer then Katie ever did. He is my everything and when I picture my life in the future without him I start to shake and get really upset. Hes not only my boyfriend and the person I can kiss and feel like I'm a new girl, but he is my bestfriend. We talk about whatever we want and I can talk to him like he is my girl friendss. We have the same disorders, and we have gone through the same things. He understands me and I understand him and I think when you have a connection like ours you can devote your life to that person for the rest of your life.
Joined: Aug 2006 Gender: Female Posts: 19 Location: Wisconsin
Re: Why do you Love this person? « Reply #4 on Aug 6, 2006, 11:17pm »
I met him on a forum, kind of like this one, but different. He and I both had massive cases of insomnia and would spend hours just talking online. Eventually he gained enough of my trust that I gave him my phone number, it was a risk but I took it. He would call me at all hours, just to hear my voice. I was afraid just because I had met him online and that's a major stalker alarm anyway. Eventually I had connected with him so deeply, somehow, that I felt all at once exactly what the meaning behind every love song, story or poem had been. I dumped my boyfriend for him. I gave him my address. I asked him to visit me, from 1000 miles away. I took those risks... because I was confidant. I just knew, 100%, inside of me that this was the man of my dreams. He visited. Many times. We're engaged. He's moving here soon.
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